Hi to all the dads, its been a while. How's the kids doing? hope everything is good but for me too bad...my daughter caught a fever since yesterday and the fever has been going up and subside then go up again...had brought her to hospital for blood test thank god it's not denggi. Doctor suspect is viral infection so will see how things will be in the coming days. Hope she will recover fast.
Just want to ask the dads here do you guys recommend using the cord harness for the kids when they can walk on their own or it is not advisable. My girl now likes to walk but she don't like to hold our hands and always like to walk towards her own direction so at times I need to slightly pull her back to follow us.
i am not a dad yet.so my exp is based on my relative children and my wife's relative children.
when i first met them after im married,they are super duper hyper active and nothin i said will have effect on them.they will hijack my phone and when i ask back for it,it will invilve crying on one side which i am allergic to see. why do i do?
i become one of them,meaning i befriend them.at the same time i show them whose boss.
what a surprising result i get after a month.maybe the one i interact with os abit older but i do believe its easier with younger child as they will.learn with whatever it is u throw at them.
now even if i left my phone on the table they will still hijack it but to give it back to me without even me asking for it back.same goes with my watch which is a favourite with them but now if they see it left somewhere they will bring it back to me even help me wear it back.
its even opens my mind seeing a child reaction and face when they see adult act like a child their age.for a 3-4 yrs old,they will have this weird face but slowly they will accept what u do and even force u to participate in their game
which is fun and very tiring.hehehe
me personally,i dont like the harness thing.no offence to other user but its like having a slave.
i works well in not letring u lose your baby in a crowded place but i do believe there is always the human approach in all.matter.
just remember,human approach took tume and patience.